In any situation, rejection is very discouraging but do remember it plays an important role in life and no-one goes through their life without experiencing it.
It is most upsetting when rejection applies to a relationship but it’s wise to remember that until you find the right relationship, there’s bound to be times when you feel rejected by someone else.
It is entirely normal to feel hurt and upset and sometimes it can actually feel as if you have a physical pain.
Allow yourself time to get over your rejection but don’t allow yourself to dwell on feeling miserable for months on end!
There are too many Elliot Rodger types in our midst, so incapable of dealing with rejection that their skewed perspective leads to needless tragedy – on a small or large scale. But you shouldn’t try to make sure she’s hurting, too, by lashing out emotionally (and certainly not physically). We have no more right to a woman’s time & affection that we do to Harvard granting us unconditional admission. Do you think she’s going to hear you call her a stuck-up bitch and say, “Oh, maybe I was wrong about him. How we handle rejection in our romantic lives is a good barometer of how well we’ll adapt when our personal or professional goals meet resistance, too.
Because let’s face it: male rage is a very real problem for women in today’s world. And while the burden of initiation still appears to rest mostly on the shoulders of men, that burden doesn’t entitle us to expect compliance for putting our necks out there. A strong man doesn’t fly into a rage when things don’t go as planned. If she already was leaning away from you, you’re not exactly making her change her impression of you by freaking out and getting angry. Or when we fall prey to layoffs during a bad economy and find ourselves unexpectedly unemployed?
"Kelly was convinced that these early "outsider" experiences were at the root of her current problems: "I'm always looking for signs that my partner is about to reject me! I'm always seeking reassurance, always wondering what he really means."Seeking reassurance from other people is a dead end.
Rejection doesn't feel great and sometimes it feels unfathomable but it shouldn't be something you permit to take away happiness from your life.Today, thanks to electronic communications, social media platforms and dating apps, each of us is connected to thousands of people, any of whom might ignore our posts, chats, texts, or dating profiles, and leave us feeling rejected as a result.In addition to these kinds of minor rejections, we are still vulnerable to serious and more devastating rejections as well.I went to eight different schools in five years, rejection upon rejection.I can so clearly remember playing on my own, always the new girl, always craving acceptance! But either way, we have a moral responsibility of dealing with it better. 4) Becoming a disgruntled “rejectee” makes you one step closer to a stalker. 5) Getting upset at her isn’t exactly going to change her mind. You’re also screwing it up for all the boys and young men out there in your life who are watching you, observing you are learning from your behavior when you get rebuffed by a woman. If we can’t handle when a woman says she’s not interested, how will be handle it when an employer says the same thing? When we get injured and can no longer run the marathon we’ve trained months for?